If someone tries to force sexual activity on you, take the following actions recommended by the US Center for Substance Abuse Prevention. Be aware that the presence of alcohol or other drugs can make the situation more difficult to deal with. Stay calm and think. Assess your situation quickly. Stay no strongly. Do not smile. Do not act friendly or polite. Say something like, “Stop it. This is rape.” It might shock the rapist into stopping.
Look for an escape route. There is no shame in escaping a dangerous situation. If you can figure out a way to distract the attacker, you can sometimes run away. Act quickly if possible. The longer you remain in the situation, the few options you have. Decide if it is safe to resist. People who hit back and scream have a much higher chance of cutting short the assault than those who don’t. If the attacker is armed, however, don’t try anything that could bring harm to you. Some basic steps you might take: Attempt to talk your way out of it. Appeal to a sense of humanity and decency. Try to get the attacker to see you as an individual person who is being hurt.
Use passive resistance. Pretend to faint or thow up. If the attacker is not armed, consider adding some aggressive steps to your plan of action: Use intimidation. Say that someone is on the way. Shout “fire.” If you shout “help,” people may ignore you. They are more likely to respond to “fire.” Fight back. Try a poke in the eye, a kick, a punch in the Adam’s apple, or a blow with a lamp or other item. Fight so that you can escape, but resist only as long as it is safe to do so.
Some of the danger signs of Rape
Reduce the risk of being raped by learning to recognize the following danger signals and hazardous situations: One-on-one situations in which alcohol is consumed. Acquaintance rape is widely associated with drinking. Instances in which you are the only woman, especially if people are drinking. There’s safety in numbers. Individuals who, after consuming alcohol, do not respect personal boundaries. Individuals who attempt to use guilt or accuse you of being uptight if you resist their sexual advances. Heavy drinkers. An intoxicated person may be more likely to become sexually aggressive, angry, or violent if rejected.
Source: US Center for Substance Abuse Prevention